Finding A Space That Surrounds You

If you love do not define it, give it space. If you cannot define it, let it be. If you love and are loved allow yourself time to rejuvenate by being alone.

We are never truly lonely, we belong to ourselves. The me, myself and I is always present. Find your space and allow yourself to breathe without thought, without action and without distraction.

Finding time to be who you think you are will help you become the person you never knew existed. That hidden person-ality, alien to you will come become the best friend you never had. Someone that is there to help you make those needed decisions. He is the invisible person that can be truthful, a mirror if you can suggest it. Never self absorbed being alone is a completeness we don’t usually find when we are surrounded by other people. We are all entitled to a break otherwise the human will do just that, break.

Love yourself, the self, the being who lives so quietly inside. The thinker, the meditator, the awesome friend that can only be there for you when your alone. Its the comedian, that makes you laugh at your own jokes, the silent companion that tells you stories of joy when your down and the protector who conquers the bad thoughts that can enter your mind. A friend indeed, one that is truly your best friend.

So if you are loved ask for silence, ask for alone time. If you love in return do the same, each person cannot be whole without. Make yourself a place of peace, read a book, meditate, learn a new craft, or just sit and think nothing. Create a space between the null and the void, a place where the subconscious doesn’t need to go. Nothing to think about is sometimes everything and without it we may never find our true self.

Magic happens in the moment of void. Truth shows its face and for once the smile illuminates the spaces around yo. You become authentic, renewed. So alone is never lonely, it’s just a place where we can go to see the real you.

When In Doubt.

When in doubt, believe. When in doubt, take a breath. When in doubt, be mindful of the thoughts you keep.

What is believing without doubt? What does it look like? We doubt more than we believe. Its hard for us to believe, especially in ourselves. What we believe in is failure. To fail is to live comfortably inside our doubts. To access success we need to let go of the doubts we carry. Especially doubts about who we are. The future is never written it exists only as it is experienced. So let it go and believe the next step is certain.

Does doubting exist or does doubt always arrive first. It seems we were born with this emotion, doubt. Doubt arrives inside our parents thoughts. We then carry their emotional fears with us. Their doubts begot ours as we saw them delivered within their own experiences with life.

Doubt is full of expectation. It thinks, yes it does, as you do. Egotism at its finest. Do not doubt me.

So when in doubt, just make it sensable. See doubt as an experience that has to be tried. Never keep its company, its not a fun friendship. Doubt likes to play games like ring around the rosy but you will be so dizzy before your done that doubt will have you thinking differently than when you began. Its like musical chairs with you losing everytime because you cant think clearly. You may think theres another chair but of course doubt has removed it from your sight.

Doubt doesnt contain the memories you give it. Doubt only contains a one sided view. Be powerful, be courageous, be not doubtful but mindful and do only one thing. Be brave and try. Even if you loose you will have an understanding of why you lost instead of the doubt that has no option.

Doubt no more.